Dementia symptoms

I've been wondering if this is the dementia, or just that my husband is weird!? Turns out yes, it is a dementia symptom. It is a sign that his brain is scrambled.

Whenever I would tell him something, he will repeat back something different.

i.e., I told him I had a client coming at noon, he replies, "Oh, you mean 11:30?"

i.e. I mention an accident I heard on the radio that happened at Simcoe & Bloor, he replies "Oh, you mean Ritson and King?"

i.e., I ask him to put a grocery item away in the cupboard next to the stove, he replies "Oh, you mean in the pantry?"

Oh yes, and he explains things back to me that I just told him... as if he just thought of it.

There are days it wears me out just to talk to him...

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