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Fainting and Purple Feet

Rob has been sick since Saturday with possibly Covid. He had a high fever of 39.7 C (103.5 F), he was talking word salad, unable to get out what he was trying to say. We were able to bring it down with Tylenol and fluids. But he has no memory of parts of that day.
Chills, aches, fatigue. His hand tremor is much worse. When I asked him to take his temperature, he tried to do it with the case still on the thermometer and had no idea he was doing it wrong. Another time, he would barely put the tip in his mouth.

He seems better, fever still spiking to 38.9 C (102 F), but fluids and Tylenol is helping. He has developed a nasty rash on his leg like the last time he had Covid - looks like his leg is covered in blood.

Anyhow, he was showering yesterday, and I heard a thud. Ran up to find him on the shower floor. He was awake by then, so not out long. But when I looked at his feet, they were bright purple!
I wrenched my bad shoulder (I have severe arthritis in my back and shoulders) getting him up on the floor - I told him he needs to take the shower chair into the shower next time, but he says that's for old people. I cannot keep picking him up off the floor!
Oh yes, and I am sick too, but still having to do everything.

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