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Memory Clinic

 All the tests are done - SPECT scan, MRI, and a ton of bloodwork - now we finally have an appt with the cognitive neurologist on Sept 15th.

Rob is expecting them to let him drive again, so he can go back to work. I am not so sure that will happen...

Considering everything, he has been pretty good about it all (there have been a few bad moments), but I worry how he will react if they say, no more driving?

I bounce back and forth from feeling like I have a handle on this to feeling totally overwhelmed.

Oh, and when I mentioned at the memory clinic about feeling frustrated with him not remembering to tell me about important forms needing to be fill out, appts that need to be booked - they said, well it's his responsibility!

Umm... isn't that why he is there, because of his memory issues???

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