Rob's Wood Project

We have been working on a number of projects together, where I have been planning, purchasing supplies, measuring, drawing lines for him to cut, and spots for him to drill. It has gone pretty well, though frustrating at times.

Yesterday he decided on a project of his own. He bought this window well cover some time ago, and I told him it was too small. He insisted it was the right side, but left it for months.

Yesterday, without telling me, he decided to fix the window well cover. He said he built a frame so it would rest on the window well. 

I am not sure if you can see from the picture? He cut it too short, so it doesn't rest on the sides. There is nothing supporting it next to the wall. He laid another piece of wood on top at the front to keep it from falling into the window well. He screwed in screws thru the plastic with no washers, so it popping off.

He can't see what's wrong, but I told him he did a great job anyhow!

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