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Rob's Assignment


I've given Rob an assignment. I hope that he can manage this before it's too late.
Lately he has gone back to practicing his guitar, taking it with him when he goes to his day program.
So, he was listening to the chords on a video of the song we danced to the first day we met.
(Keeper of the Stars )
and I realized what a wonderful memory it would be if I had a video of him playing that song.
So, I told him if he would practice our song, when he feels confident, I will videotape him playing, as a keepsake.
Then I had another thought. His family is very musical, his sister plays in public at many professional settings. So I was thinking, if I could play this video at his funeral, and his sister could play along, their last time together.
Sorry, kind of morbid, but we all know it's coming.
Of course, I will be a ball of tears, already listening to this song makes me tear up.

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